How Can I Prepare for a Custody Evaluation?

When couples divorce, they may argue over parenting issues and custody of their children. Indeed, child custody is one of the most contentious issues in a divorce. It is not uncommon for parents to both want full custody of their children. However, the courts tend to favor having both parents in a child’s life to the maximum extent possible. Parents who cannot agree on child custody must resolve their case in court. While not yet common in Tennessee, the judge may order a custody evaluation in some cases before trial.

A custody evaluation provides information about the family to help the judge reach a decision that will be in the children’s best interests. While custody evaluations may be done during a divorce, they can also be done in post-decree cases, when parenting disputes arise after divorce. Here’s a thorough look at the process so you can understand and prepare.

What is the Purpose of a Custody Evaluation?

A custody evaluation is a process used by courts to help determine a child’s best interests in cases of divorce, separation, or disputes involving child custody. It typically involves a comprehensive assessment conducted by a mental health professional with specialized training in family dynamics and child development.

The main purpose of a custody evaluation is to provide the court with an impartial, detailed report that includes recommendations about:

• Custody arrangements. Who should have legal and physical custody of the child
• Parenting time. How much time the child should spend with each parent (visitation schedules)
• Child’s best interests. What arrangements would best meet the child’s physical, emotional, and psychological needs

Preparing for a Custody Evaluation

Here is how to prepare for a custody evaluation:

• Be honest. Be truthful with the evaluator. You don’t want to damage your credibility. Show cooperation and a willingness to work with the evaluator and the other parent.
• Focus on the child’s best interests. Focus on what’s best for your child, not what you want. Emphasize your child’s needs, routine, education, and emotional well-being.
• Gather documentation. Collect and organize relevant documents, such as school reports, medical records, and parenting plans. Keep a record of your involvement in your child’s life, such as extracurricular activities and medical appointments
• Prepare for the interview. Anticipate common questions such as:
  • How do you handle discipline?
  • What are your child’s strengths and weaknesses?
  • How do you support your child’s relationship with the other parent?
• Maintain a positive environment. Minimize conflict. Avoid involving your child in adult matters or speaking negatively about the other parent in their presence.

Skilled Family Law Attorneys

When parents cannot decide on child custody in a divorce, the court may order a custody evaluation. Knowing how to prepare for one can help you get the best outcome possible.

A Murfreesboro family law attorney from The Law Office of David L. Scott can help ensure your child’s best interests are met. Tennessee custody laws are complex, but we will help you navigate them. Schedule a consultation today by completing the online form or calling (615) 896-7656.